A real boyfiee..

A real boyfriend knows when his girl is happy, lonely, mad, or aggravated. He knows when is the right time to comfort her when she’s down. He knows when he should just sit with her and listen. He knows when he is wrong and knows how to say sorry. He knows when to say a joke and when it is the best time to be serious. He knows when is the right time to tease her and knows when to stop. A real boyfriend can never be a perfect boyfriend, but can be the perfectly imperfect person for the one he loves. He’ll be the one reason why his girlfriend should feel lucky to have him.

When....

          When she stares at your mouth, kiss her. When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy cause she thinks she’s stronger than you, grab her and don’t let go. When she starts cursing at you and acting tough, kiss and tell her you love her. When she’s quite, ask what’s wrong. When she ignores you, give her your attention. When she pulls away, pull her back. When you see her at her worst, tell her she is beautiful. When you see her start to cry, just hold her and don’t say a word. When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind. When she’s scared, protect her. When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night. When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh. When she doesn’t answer for a long time, reassure her everything is okay When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up. When she says that she loves you, she really does more than you can understand. When she grabs your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers. When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh. When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold. When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does. When she says it’s over, she still wants to be with you. When she reposts this bulletin she wants you to read it. When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let go. When she says she’s okay, don’t believe it, talk with her because in 10 years she’ll remember you. Call her at 12 in the morning on her birthday to tell her you love her. Treat her like she’s all that matters to you. Watch her favorite movie or show with her, even if you think it’s stupid. Give her the world. Let her wear your clothes. When she’s bored and sad, hangout with her. Let her know she’s important. Don’t talk to other girls around her.

It maybe a bit exaggerated but somehow I keep on praying that this man is existing..

Things Every Inspired Person (That’s YOU) Should Know...

Here’s a list of nine principles I’ve learned the hard way that every inspired person, regardless of their specific aspirations, should know and follow on a daily basis.

1. Life’s biggest limitations are the ones you make in your mind.  Life’s biggest causes of unhappiness are the false beliefs you refuse to let go of.  You are capable of far more than you are presently thinking, imagining, doing or being.  But you will ultimately become what you habitually contemplate; so clear your mind and let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future.
2. You must deal with the world the way it is, not the way you wish it was.  Think positive.  Life is good.  Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting pure gold.  Positive thinking isn’t about expecting the best to always happen, but accepting that whatever happens is the best for the moment.  So keep smiling and keep following your heart.  Someday, life will get tired of upsetting you.  Read Happiness Is a Serious Problem.
3. What others do is out of your control.  Realize that you can’t always count on others to respect your feelings, even if you respect theirs.  Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people too.  You only have control over yourself – over how you choose to be as an individual.  And as for others, you can only accept them, or walk away.
4. You were not meant to sit at the edge of your comfort zone.  Not trying for fear of falling.  Not loving for fear of losing love.  Not speaking your truth for fear of what others will think.  Not looking at yourself in the mirror for fear of what you might see.  Try, and then try again with all your might.  Your courage will unfold as your resolve takes hold.  And with each effort you make you will earn a little more confidence which you can use to acquire what no one else can give you: Your self-respect, and the life you were meant to live.
5. You are not like anyone else.  Don’t you ever let anyone tell you that you can’t be exactly who you are.  In a world of comparison and conformity, take a stand.  Make your own statement.  Honor your own truth.  Risk speaking your own thoughts and sharing your own ideas.  Express your fears, tears, doubts, and insecurities – let others experience the real you.  Have the courage to be yourself and realize that you’re perfect just the way you are.  Read The Art of Non-Conformity.
6. True love is one-way traffic.  It’s a pure flow of giving and expecting nothing in return.  Anything else is a contract.  Notice how whenever you allow love to flow you are always clear, calm and strong.  It is only when the thought arises, “What have they given me in return?” that there is confusion and resentment.  Ego transacts, love transforms.  Life is too short for all these meticulous contracts and transactions.  Remain clear, remain bright, and remain strong.  Love without expectation.
7. You cannot live your life at the mercy of chance.  You cannot stumble along with a map marked only with the places you fear, or the places you know you don’t want to revisit.  You cannot remain trapped, endlessly, in a state where you are unable to ask for directions, even though you’re terribly lost, because you don’t know your destination.  You have to stand up, look at yourself in the mirror, and say, “It isn’t good enough for me to know only what I DON’T want in life.  I need to decide what I DO want.”
8. Being genuine is more important than being right.  You may say or do all the right things, but if it doesn’t come from the heart, it means nothing.  You may not always know the right things to say or do, but if your intent is genuine, then it means the world.  When you work from a foundation of truth, you are free to make as many choices, free to make as many mistakes, free to take as much time as necessary to get it right. Read As a Man Thinketh.
9. Your future depends on what you do right now.  Challenge yourself to be who you know you are capable of being.  Challenge yourself to follow through – to live what you preach, to walk your talk.  Don’t worry about how slowly you feel you’re heading toward your goals, or how many roadblocks you find, or how many detours you’re forced to take.  As long as you keep doing your thing, you’re still cruising far ahead of everyone who’s too scared to even try.

-MARC CHERNOFF

Being a human...

It sucks to cry. It's even worse when you have to hold back the tears and pretend to be fine. Sometimes you can't pretend anymore. Sometimes emotions get too strong and you break, but this doesn't make you weak, it makes you human.

Something I'm trying to believe..

It’s cute when your boyfriend tells you little things. Even when it’s as simple as a story of when they were younger or if  they tell you about a dream they had, it’s just so cute. I like it when they can be honest. Forget the act of trying to be mysterious because it’s not attractive, it’s confusing. Just be straight up with me. Trust me and I’ll ’trust you….

This line keeps running on my mind as I walk around somewhere.... Uggghh! Forget everything and start thinking real....

“I’m not looking to fall in love. I’m not even necessarily looking for a boyfriend right now. All I really want is to find a nice, good guy I can text late at night, joke around with, and be stupid with. Someone who likes the same music as me, someone I can easily talk to, someone I can be my total self around and not mind at all. A guy I can waste Friday nights with, laugh with, and have fun with. Someone who’s not perfect, but understands me, you know? Is that really too much to ask for?”

U-N-E-X-P-E-C-T-E-D

Sometimes, you just have to make the decision to be happy. Just realize that things aren't ever what you hoped they'd be. Not ever! For everybody. The only thing that separates one kind of person from another is that there are some who stay angry about it and there are some who accept what comes their way.

I'm kinda upset of hows life turning upside down. I wanna hate society for treating me like somebody who is an insensitive to her feelings. I mean, how can a person do something worse that I ever expected to someone I never expected? Fvck! I wanna punch myself for being so blind. Life is sometimes harsh but I guess this is too much. I just wanna give myself a little break and hold on to to this feelings... Whatever will happen, then let it be.